Let’s move away from this eventful, emotional story a bit to something we do not know. This is not just a story but a report and a well-researched post, if you could say, that took decades of research by the writer. Some of the people say, “So and so is an unwanted child”. They do not feel that way, but if the child is not well-mannered and has weird thoughts, they would all be angry, including the parents, and even more so by others. Everyone would come down so harshly on the youngest child, including their older siblings. Somehow, parents love their youngest child more than their other children. This is the truth that parents never ignore their youngest child and love them a lot.

Firstly, always keep in your mind and heart that respecting others is gold. “Give respect and take respect”. So is the case for kindness to those who are on medication for depression, and even to all forms of people, be kind. This is not an eventful real-life story but an interesting lesson. You should know that, in most cases, parents do not ignore their youngest child, but some do. They do, and they do not notice what they do.

When my mother was alive, she often told me that when my father passed away. I told her, “Mom, don’t worry, my father will come back.” Surely, my father has come back to the position of my two lovely brothers. Not the second one, who never missed a chance whenever there is any to abuse me. Let’s hope that all parents never miss a chance to love their youngest ones more than the others, to begin with.    

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I understood a lot and keep learning how badly the youngest child is treated by their siblings. One small mistake would be taken so seriously, and they would be cursed by many. But parents get to know that the youngest child is their dearest one. Their dearest one, because they are the youngest of all and would be loved more. Parents never ignore their youngest child, and when they are unfortunately no more in this world and have left behind their multiple children, their siblings, obviously older than them, would dominate.

The pain that the youngest ones suffer from shouldn’t be taken lightly. They have the habit of loving everyone, and obviously, they miss their parents. They would so much miss their mothers because, in most cases, the fathers die at a young age or when they were 2-3 years old.

Children are a blessing to their parents; we, as older siblings, have to take care of everyone. Never be harsh and dominate the youngest of all. You would notice that the youngest child would be loved more by the parents, but in some cases, siblings won’t understand them. One or two of the older siblings would keep criticising and making fun of their youngest. The benefit of the doubt, if someone is wrong, would not always go in favour of the youngest ones.

Let’s peek in a bit more.

The youngest slowly develops a positive intent not to repeat their mistakes, to be good, and to improve their conduct towards their elders and others. What the youngest of all need, in return, is love, if not care by others. They keep things so simple and won’t notice that their simple use of words would be taken wrongly. This is so because one can easily mix falsehood with simple truth. That becomes a complicated journey, and when one of their elders becomes so harassing and torturing their youngest, they would slowly go into depression, from mild to severe. That depression would go unnoticed in some cases for many years.

In my case, the depression became so severe that it caused an unbearable headache. That was so unbearable that words can’t describe that, but I decided in that tightened mind that I won’t do suicide. I never did suicide for myself, to get rid of such a severe headache. However, life comes with what you can’t afford but would afford.

One day. When one of my elder brothers got married, his wife would go out every day and come back late at night. The brother was abroad. I was shocked, but was silent. What’s going on? The supervisor of our apartment building repeatedly told me to tell her story to my brother. I told this to my mom, and my mom also noticed that. She did not care because she was least bothered, as she never liked this daughter-in-law from the beginning.  

Parents Never Ignore… continues.

A bit earlier. That brother, newly married, used to iron her clothes, make her dresses ready, and so on. So, it was tough for me to tell the story about his wife, but when I told him, he asked her. Made her, my mom, a witness to what she needed to tell the truth by taking an oath over the glorious Quran. Brother ordered her, and he was afraid of her, too. She took the oath that she had never committed adultery and never gone outside of her home. That’s enough. Was it? No, the brother shockingly believed what she told him, and also did not accept the truth in front of my mom and me. He instructed me to get the supervisor’s head and show him. He told. “I want him dead, and I want his head”.

Shocked & Saddened

I was somewhere lost. Thinking about how I can take the soul of anyone? Instead, I made the most serious attempt from there, but it was not possible to save my life. Meaning that it was not possible because I took 30 tablets of Olanzapine 10mg, and it was next to impossible to get saved from this attempt. Usually, people take 0.25 mg of sleeping pills, one or two. I attempted suicide not for myself, but for my brother, whom I still love so much. But he still ignores my WhatsApp messages.

Suddenly, I went to my uncle’s home, very close to my flat. His son took me on his shoulders while I was unconscious. I was also told that no hospitals were willing to take me in. But NIIM’s hospital in Hyderabad treated me. The police were about to register a case against my brother, but I took it back, my cousin paid some amount, and the case was closed at that moment.

I was somehow, having been kept on a ventilator for some time, discharged from the hospital. Within how many days? I don’t remember.  

This shocked me and saddened me  

Shocked me because my brother told me a “sorry” when I was home from the hospital. But saddened me because one of my sisters who loves me a lot. Cried, and she cried, but for what? She cried that my brother told “sorry to me. That saddened me because nobody knew how much I was in trouble in the NIIMs hospital while undergoing treatment. Whenever I regained consciousness, I saw myself tied with ropes. That’s not the end.

That’s not the end because I attempted three suicides in my life, and I was fortunate to be alive so far. The first one was riding a Yamaha at a very high speed when I hit a jeep. This attempt was not for me either.  Luckily, nothing happened to me; the Almighty my Lord saved me. The second one was so much like an impossible mission that it became possible because of my Lord, the Almighty, who saved me. The third one was when I was running a unique business called Shoe Laundry (refresh your shoes: tagline).

I have to manage my business, and it has been so successful that I have to be there all the time. My mother got hospitalised, and I have to move from my business to the hospital. Shuffling my trips from here and there like a pendulum. But my eldest sister told me that my business is nothing. She said, “How much you earn from the business is nothing compared to my brother, who had quit being a partner, a 50-50% with his brother-in-law.

The Third One:

So again, I took an extreme step because of their taunts and humiliations, that was all. I took another 30 tablets, but at that moment, I took Quetiapine, and I noticed why I was not leaving this world. So, I called my doctor, he told me: “Nothing to worry, I need to cleanse my stomach, and there would be no worries, Quetiapine is not that harmful”.  

Still, I was often ignored by my siblings for such things that they didn’t care, even if I made a fourth suicide attempt or died. Whatever, but they love me and my brother, who got married the second time immediately after learning that his first wife was guilty. He got separated from her and married another woman. I’m so much in pain while writing, I can’t let you know everything bit by bit. But is it wise to invite all of your siblings by ignoring you? Would you suffer from being isolated? No. But let’s move on. Let’s learn something good, and patience always wins.

So, parents never ignore the youngest ones, but siblings do. This is so because they question aggressively for whatever mistakes they make, as they are not afraid of the fourth suicide attempt. However, my end of life would be due to bad health, an accident or just anything, not by suicide. I prohibit even a minor harm to oneself, not just suicides. Be aware and stop this menace, which is a curse, and try to be kind to everyone and live a righteous life. They do not know that I started to disown suicidal thoughts now. Even if they learn about this real-life, short, eventful story, they would never hesitate to question me. So be it. I will answer them.

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