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A thrilling experience is having a lot of fun together at a function. But without someone close to you, yet so far, won’t suffice to bring you the full joy of whatever good benefits you. The happiest moment for you should be the one when you help someone in need. Living for yourself and targeting someone to whom your bother is least likely to be would not help you. It would surely harm you, as whoever does good benefits with it. Whoever does bad would harm their lives, this one and the endless.

Keeping everything in memory, good or bad, to think and analyse better and to know where you stand, is something. Complaining or backbiting someone, and not being bothered about whether they’re present or not, isn’t a good thing. Leave everything behind, don’t make oneself a fool by speaking to others about someone you hate. Hate, or hatred, is a disease, and you can get rid of it. Hating no one is the first step. Be a better human being by taking care of everyone, not just by focusing on meeting others, but also on someone who might be the youngest in the family or the eldest one. 

Be Kind to One & All

Do know your duties, and be kind to one and all. Don’t make stories about someone you hate so much that you don’t invite them to attend your small or big functions. You go ahead with what is good for you and for others. Not just all good to you, ignoring others, just for your own good? That is so selfish thinking. Those might not tell anyone about you, why you sideline them. They feel you, and they know you much better for what you keep doing to them, all bad? Isn’t it?

What is wrong with being kind to one and all? So, what is better than ignoring someone’s bad behaviour and moving forward? Let’s not put someone isolated for who cares about us and knows us much better, through all the good times they’ve spent with us. Don’t be in the good books of some others by inserting the names of some others in the bad books of some others.

Can’t you wait at least until some others who want to join you at the party arrive? I’m asking because you wanted to show them that it’s all done, and they are late. So, let’s punish them this way by having lunch a bit early, with all the guests present.

This is the punishment, isn’t it?

A few, or one or two, could have waited for them because they might be very late due to unavoidable circumstances. You don’t care. Why? Why not let them know the food is finished and punish them more? No, you did so to have the party’s lunch meals late for them without anyone joining them. You liked to serve them, not the warm food. Yours is all right, and about them is all wrong. Right? Also, you keep talking together and fail to talk to those who arrived late.   

Thereafter, it should be noted that there were almost half a dozen hosts, and one or two could have waited that evening. I also learned that they had breakfast in the afternoon. So why can’t they wait? Why didn’t they wait for about 15-20 minutes? The party was a lunch party, a get-together, but there was no togetherness.  

Every moment is precious:

The time you spend not wasting food or water, the time you spend not arguing or using bad words. But if someone comes at you so hard and uses foul language, they will soon repent and ask for forgiveness. What do you do then? You’ll not forget what they do to you, and you would like them to bear the pain. But for how long? They might suffer from whatever you do to them, and they would feel guilty for not being forgiven by you.

What will be the outcome? Some others would take advantage of whatever neglect from you, to so and so. It means you mix easily with the enemies of someone, and they say, enemy’s enemy is my friend. Why so? Change this logic, move on to see someone so happy for you, and be kind to one and all at once. Don’t believe that the enemy’s enemy is your friend. In fact, keep your presence so nice for one and all. Listen. Be a good listener to all, not just to those you prefer. After all, all moving forward in the same boat.

Your good benefits you. So, whoever does good benefits with it.      

Note: This article, written by Khalid M. Raza and published on Tumido News, aims to help readers understand the real events and Growth. All written content here is on the writer’s ‘Writes RIGHT for YOU’ basis, and if you have any questions, please leave a comment. All content on Tumido News is for the information and knowledge of our esteemed readers. Feel free to ask.

Please also note that this article is based on occasional tragic incidents. It seriously encourages good care and kindness toward each other. Remember, this is the disclaimer and an opinionated article- a real-life story of the author who experienced it to help our readers understand the kindness to one’s own relatives and families.

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